You know life teaches you a lot of valuable lessons right but most of the the time it is after the moment when you need them these are 15 lessons you learn too late in life.
We often learn the mistakes that will make decisions during our 20s or 30s but once a wise man said “It is better than that you make mistakes and learn the lesson from your mistakes you made. Learn from other mistakes “So today we going to talkabout 5 lessons that you learn in life.
Everything is temporary:
Once everything is temporary now we like to think we have plenty of years ahead of us right depending on your age you might not even think that far ahead but even if you are temporary coping with the idea that everything you do and every person you meet is temporary can be a reality.
Shattering experience, the family dog is Temporarily your relationships are Temporarily the items you buy are temporary nothing lasts forever it’s one of those things you can only fully grasp when you’ve already seen it happen in your past we all want to live forever to by Eternal but everything we do at some point will be gone and people will have forgotten it so you might as well go for it is right be grateful for the things you have and inspired to go after the things that will add to your happiness you only get one shot.
Life isn’t fair:
Life isn’t fair that the promotion you want will probably go to someone smooth talking to the boss even though you’re more qualified and you work harder that girl you like might go after you.
The douchebag more despite your thinking that you would be a better fit for whatever that might mean you are experiencing life through your own eyes, you’re going to be biased the other 8 billion people in the world are experiencing the same thing it can’t all be perfect for everyone at once the world doesn’t owe you anything just because you think you deserve something doesn’t mean you’re going to get it, Family Matters.
Family matters more than friends:
Family matters more than friends you can’t choose your family but nobody is willing to go further for you than they are friends are amazing have as many real friends as you can get but family is something.
Special friends will be alongside you in the trenches none of them would risk themselves for their family members are the ones who’d be willing to put you above them don’t take that for granted talk to your parents while you still have them talk to your siblings and don’t let that relationship cool down and of course, spend time with your kids because they need you more than they need anyone or anything else.
Others treat you the way you treat yourself, not them:
The fourth lesson is others treat you the way you treat yourself not the way you treat them it’s weird when you realize that someone else’s attitude toward you depend on yourself and not the other person the way you present yourself what you think of yourself and who you are as an individual is all in your control.
You can choose to grow to learn to improve you are the Su of your experiences and beliefs once you fully accept a different set of the entire perception of the world around you will change just think of this small experiment for a moment if you were to move to a new city where nobody knows you wear different clothes listen to different music you start to speak differently and change your interests.
Well the new people you meet in that new city will treat you differently than the ones back home so have more respect for yourself and stand up for what you believe in and don’t let others walk all over you because these small things will haunt you.
The sacrifices you make today will pay dividends in the future:
The sacrifices you make today will pay dividends in the future the main regret of people in the second half of their life is not taking enough action this is something we call the invisible sacrifice this happens when you choose not to go for the life you want and end up with the only life that’s left.
This sacrifice affects everything from career relationships health and who you are as a person the problem is it’s only clear where you could have done better when you look back at the past that rear view mirror is always crystal clear and by the time you realize this it becomes really hard to turn things around.